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Why failure is part of the success

By Deborah fike

As long as I can remember, I wanted to be a writer. I've kept a journal faithfully throughout my school years and registered each story writing contest as I could. I would write short poems in the margins of my notes of scientific conferences and even writing comic stories on all of my friends are superheroes. With good notes and piles of finished stories, I felt like nothing could stand between me and a promising career as a writer.

Except that life was violated. Despite my best intentions, I eventually reduce my dream, once I hit college. Novel chevauché studies written. I picked up a boyfriend, who took most of my time. I tried to keep written by submitting short stories from time to time to collegiate magazines, but none of them have been accepted. After several letters of rejection, I abandoned my dream to write in lieu of other activities. "From time to time I find an old 3.5" floppy disk filled with ideas for articles and imagine "If", but things get much further than that. I was unhappy about it, but I felt that I should spend my time doing "adult things". At the tender age of 23, I felt that I had failed to write.

What I didn't in time, however, is that the failure is not a game of end for our hopes and desires. Failure is, in fact, a part of the success. Although a few lucky ones get to realize their dreams at a young age, most of us experience serious disappointment on our trips. Even if these reverse sting, they also make our most precious dreams. Can you imagine how you feel if you had already participated in Olympic Games, has launched a multi-million dollar company and received the Noble peace prize before leaving secondary school? These accomplishments probably do mean much for you since you earned them as easily.

Not only failed to give real meaning to our dreams, also forces us to give priority to what we really want from life. After failing, it is to realize that you want to stop the pursuit of a goal. I gave my aspirations acting, long ago, and I've never regretted it. I discovered that acting not made me happier. We cannot spend our time reach, therefore sometimes by waive one purpose, you will find how much you enjoy seeking something else.

I do not say that failure is easy – far from it. Failed is the singular most difficult thing to do. It requires us to believe in ourselves, when others could not keep continue something without the promise of a reward. Do not fight the guilt, disappointment and jealousy, sometimes all of the means. It can destroy our esteem self-esteem, making us feel stupid to search in the first place.

Then, Yes, failure hurt, sometimes painfully so, but imagine you've done everything you can to avoid it. You would never feel these negative emotions, true, but this also means that you have never grown yourself, never taking a risk and ultimately never accomplished anything. Although the pursuit of a goal is not the success, not to pursue a goal ensures that it will never happen.

So ultimately, I got back to writing. I've found that writing does not, even if I could not get published, made me more miserable than all these letters of rejection. I finished a novel, I started College and then wrote a second, that neither of which has never been published. It did not matter because the pure joy of writing has become its own reward.

Then, something magical happened. Some of my news are published. I discovered the different avenues of writing - blog articles and marketing ad copy. I had the fantastic opportunity to stories of project for two video games online, which are still published, but I'm keeping my fingers crossed. Each year, I continue to write closer to me is my goal to reach a broad audience of readers. And most surprising of all, I do in ways that I would have imagined when I was 23.

Who knows where I will eventually tomorrow? It is possible that all my writing income will be dry up. I could never get to write a published video game. It's all probabilities. However, I know that if I stop writing by fear of failure, I will never achieve anything. This gives the chance of success is worth the risk of failure.

Bio of the author:

Deborah Fike is a founder of Fellowstream, a tool for collaboration for small teams and companies. She loves discuss project management online and written as much as she can in her free time.

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Clearing clutter opens the spirit

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By jakob Barry

I do a lot to write about environmental issues and the renovation and one of the most important topics that I find that everyone can relate is clutter.

Congestion can be a heavy burden which constrains and stifles. As the phenomenon interesting take on the characteristics of its owner, when they are on a walk of a pet, we are often on the elements of the mess around us, without even knowing.

Whether in the kitchen, basement, yard or "all of the above" somehow everyone has congestion and when it starts to rule over a certain rhythm in our lives, it affects personal relationships and slows our ability to move forward. Essentially, it closes we instead to open our hearts and minds of our dreams.

I can tell you from my own experience, I have had blocks mental or denied opportunities of x or Y, because of the clutter in my life.

I can't host the party, too clutterI cannot extend my imagination, too clutterI can not get out because I do not want to return to the disorder so!

If the question is what to do about it?

For me, the answer has become a question of personal management, which I eventually solved on my own with great efforts. With hindsight I would break it in in the following four points:

Sometimes we get funks work, writers block is a good example. We spend hours or even days in trying to meet a deadline or finish a project and in the meantime all around us falls to smithereens. It took me a time two days to clean the apartment after a week assignment which included a few departure.

I cannot stress this enough, but do not expect that it is too late and you're completely overwhelmed. Every day take a break for 15 minutes, preferably in the morning and clear space, so it don't finish closing you more until that just creative energy flow.

If necessary, select jumble of areas such as a box office, bed, or a closet where disorder may be a temporary home in the vicinity. Join these limits as much as possible and sort out the weekend.

Even if a mess develops in various places that use 15 minutes in the first part of the day of the transfer to the selected area. Just don't forget to set a time to make the zone itself clutter free.

Really. I am not joking. When you run a race you need to keep yourself saying "I can do, I can do." In the same way, I found that when we talk about some things way he recorded differently. For example, that you are about to load inform yourself:

I would like to pick up all rags I seeI want to organize the paper that separates the basket of the formsI important need to bring food to the kitchenI want to dust and scanning the floorI want to get done in 15 minutes!

Say it and get there.

To realize that the part of staying healthy are in a healthy environment. Footprint exposes us to all kinds of new problems such as the dust allergies and even mold and mildew when moisture is involved. It affects our breathing, increases the stress which causes the disease and deprives us of the force, we need to achieve our goals.

That is why when it comes to clutter consider the effect of health.

Also, don't forget the point of all that is inspire us to change our reality in something better for the ideas that we have brought the world will be provided in abundance.

If anything, we have our health to achieve.

Bio of the author:

Jakob Barry wrote Networx.com, a growing community of owners and entrepreneurs sharing and monitoring of the whole home renovation projects. It covers various topics of home renovation, including the kid friendly activities of cleaning and general advice for cleaning of the House .

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Seven Creative ways to change your point of view

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By Ali Luke

Few things make you stressed unnecessarily?

You feel a nagging sense of dissatisfaction with your life?

What is you struggle to see from point of view of other people?

It is often difficult to keep a sense of perspective in our lives. We are constantly bombarded by stimuli urgent seeming - like texts, telephone calls, instant messages, tweets and emails. We live each day in haste, fighting our way through a list of tasks without end.

And we often grumble and complain about problems in our life, while ignoring all the good things we have. Could be equally hampered vision and believe that our opinions are good.

Change your point of view can be incredibly refreshing. It could:

Open new opportunities that you had not thought beforeHelp allows you to heal a relationship with someone who you think have "stupid" values and opinionsCalm you down when you feel stressedLet you love and appreciate all the good things you have already

Here are seven simple ways to change your point of view. Give one (or more!) to try, today:

When I'm worried about something, that is what I often ask me. Almost always, the answer is that it does little in a week, and still less than five years.

Some days - even certain times - are Exchange life. You have probably been through some of them - as examinations, job interviews, the decision to marry or buy a House.

Most of what we were worried, however, is fleeting and trivial. Perhaps you've made a mistake at work, or you've had a crisis of dinner, which means that your family is eating pizza for the third time in three days. It is really not worth stressing yourself on.

You may have a big decision to make, or a big problem to confront. It could have been on your mind for days or weeks. It may even be something that you mentioned (or supported on) with your partner.

The problem is that you feel that you do not get anywhere. You are just as uncertain or anxiety that you were before.

It is the ideal time to grab a pen and paper. Write about the problem - perhaps in the style of a journal, or as a list of ideas entry - or draw something that represents the current situation. By your thinking. on paperyou start automatically create the structure and order, which allows you to see things from a new perspective, more clear. It is likely that you will find several possible solutions.

Whatever your current situation, you have loads of great things in your life too. Some of us (me included!) are too easy to moan about the things that is not well - but difficult to find good things everyday that we take for granted.

Spend five minutes writing a list of things you are grateful dedicated to They can be big ("my parents love and support") or small ("fresh coffee"). It is a powerful exercise on a regular basis, perhaps every week. You can also do family.

When I feel a little fed to the top or spells, I try to go out for a walk. Often, I don't feel as do - but as soon as I am outdoors and travel, I find my mood considerably improve.

Walking is an excellent way to physically out of all what is pointing out that you (your work, the State of the Cook) and to give you a chance to think. If you somewhere relaxing head, as a local park or a forest zone, you will find that your thoughts calm and that it is easier to get things in perspective.

Away from the House - if it is for a few days or a few months - can be an incredibly powerful experience, same change of life. Just stay in a city different will bring you your usual routine (and perhaps helps discover you what you want to add in your everyday life).

If you go abroad, you will be able to experience a completely new perspective. You will see how life can be lived in hundreds of very different ways. You will have the space and time to think about your own life, and you may well be motivated to make big changes.

Even the most dull bits of travel can be powerful: a long plane ride may be a rare opportunity to read a whole book in a single session, for example.

The next time you're struggling to get the point of view, ask why do you something. Your inner child here channels - be persistent in pushing for a real answer!

If you're working a job you hate, why are you it? It is perhaps for money - but do you really need the money? (You may well be). "(But it is possible that you try to support a way of life which is in fact make you miserable).".

It may be uncomfortable to look at the reasons why we are going to pursue the objectives that we have. But by being honest with yourself, you can open the possibility of change.

Most of us were deeply rooted beliefs on certain subjects - perhaps religion, politics, morality, social justice or similar compelling issues.

You may find very difficult to understand how someone could be so crazy to support the "opponents" of your particular point of view. It is an interesting exercise to read or listen to an argument put forwards by a group that you would normally disagree with.

I do not say that you must change your point of view or compromise your values. But I'm not that you acknowledge that there is good and intelligent, thoughtful people who have different you opinions. You can well be in disagreement with them - but it is useful to see where they're coming from.

This can be a powerful and upsetting same way to change your point of view, so be careful and don't get drawn into arguments yourself: just listen and make the effort to understand.

Are there areas of life where you need to get a point of view? If you have any thoughts or ideas to share, comments are open…

Bio of the author:

Ali writes about personal growth and development on his blog, Aliventures. Like blogs, she wrote fiction and prepares an MA in creative writing.

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The change of Direction later in life

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ByWendy Thomas

Here is the paradox: more than 50 years, change gets more difficult, and it may also appear even more urgent.

For most of us, life is well established and solidly entrenched behaviour. We can have lived in the same house or city for many years, with the same partner just as long and worked in the same field in all this time. But, just as the concept of retirement begins to loom come on the mental horizon, circumstances or natural processes often conspire to get rid of the runway.

I remember an old much friend telling me many years ago that was going through menopause induced by a strange feeling 'like being in love, but without an object', as she described. Now, my experience tells me the truth of this strange feeling of separation from the previously held assumptions which can often provide the impetus for major change. Women over 50 years may also meet with the syndrome of the suddenly free of the requirements of young adults, empty nest and therefore especially determined to return to their own lives and run it differently.

Other triggers, often more powerful men, include redundancy and early retirement. The abrupt change of status and sense of self often comes with finishing work can easily get rid of the balance and propel us into the major change.

This implies a process, when dissatisfaction with the status quo sets. If this is not resolved by discussions or renegotiating with others directly concerned, the mental recognition of the need for decisive action gets the ball.

There is a lot riding on the change of end of life, and it is not only the concerns of financial insecurity at a time where the income is likely to decrease. It can be scary to leave a relationship in the long term, with thoughts insidious never meet someone else and spending of age alone (and loved in the worst mental scenarios that tend to haunt decision at this stage of life)-old emotionally.

Even what can be considered more positive choices, such as moving house or going to live abroad and enjoy the retirement in the Sun can bring added stress factors at a certain age. What are the chances to close at a new ties of friendship where we left behind people who have known us for thirty or forty years? How will never come to learn a foreign language when we cannot even remember the names of the people we met yesterday?

And the possibility of it all go wrong is even more difficult, because trying to go back can be a change too far without the same energy and negligent confidence of young people.

This change in later life can be difficult for many reasons. But none of these are strong enough to be a bad idea if the seed is actually planted and we deeply know that current circumstances cannot be adapted to make happy and rewarding life that we would like - and, admittedly, we deserve damn well after a long hard work life.

It is never too late to change. I know of 80 years, moving to England in France to begin a new life and good luck to them. I have a friend who, almost 60, left his country house and the use of the decades of living with a new partner and forge a very different life in a small country town. Myself, I have moved abroad and later decided to leave my marriage despite a precarious - let's be honest, positively overwhelming - financial situation. I regret my decision to major change in my mid-50 years? PAS for a moment. I am alive and I am kicking.

Bio of the author:

Wendy Thomas writes about change in later life to the www.late-change.blogspot.com

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Why the will was not enough

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By kerry patterson, co-author of the New York Times bestseller change anything

A few months ago I gave a speech on personal change based on research in my last bestseller change anything: the new Science of personal achievement. At the end of my presentation, member approached me and said, "you can use this on yourself, couldn't you?". Then, he bites me in my fairly large stomach and laughs.

In short, "physician, heal thyself."

Therefore, I decided it was time to put the principles to change anything to work on myself. Sixty pounds lighter, that I can now say with great personal resolve if you understand the principles behind personal influence, you can change anything. Here's what I learned.

Escape the trap of desire

The error more common we do when you try to change our unhealthy habits is to assume that if we apply just enough will, we can change.

My co-authors and I have studied 5 000 people overcome personal challenges and concluded that only will rarely help us to overcome bad work habits. In fact, there are in fact six sources of influence that shape our choice. According to our research, those which apply to all six sources of influence in combination are ten times more likely to change.

Create six sources of influence

I started my shift from relying on its willingness to exploit the sources of influence by creating a statement of personal motivation. This statement reminded me why I wanted to get healthy. When I was tempted to eat unhealthy food or slack off in my exercise regime, I thought about my grandchildren and how I wanted to be in good health, so I could spend time with them for years to come.

Second, I had the skills that I did not. It proved I knew much less about nutrition and exercise than I thought. Thus, I became a student of the year of food and preparation methods.

Third, I moved to the social field. I transformed accomplices asking to those friends who I attempted with snack or dessert to cease. I have even asked to encourage me when I made healthy choices.

Fourth, I have worked with a personal trainer who taught me how to exercise and to prepare healthy food.

Then, I've reversed the existing economy. I have placed the money in an envelope, gave to a friend and send money to an organization that I despised whenever I missed a weekly goal. That helped keep me on the trail!

And finally, I took control of the space around me. Brian Wansink of Cornell University, found that people eat 92% of everything on their plate - what is. The difference between the plates of 12 inches and 9 inches total more than 33% of calories! I decided to put my kitchen on a diet by exchanging my large plates and bowls for children.

The scientist and the subject

Person has designed a change program that perfectly suits your needs, temperament, and the situation. Instead of adopting a program on shelf, begin by studying you and your weak moments. Changers of success transforming bad days in good data by learning their setbacks and adjust accordingly in order to plan evolves in a direction deliberate on the path to success.

I finally had success when I leave in relying on my will alone for change me and instead created a plan custom, multifaceted with strategies in each of the six sources of influence.

Comments by Kerry Patterson

Kerry Patterson is the author success four times New York Times Change anything: the new Science of personal achievement (Affairs, April 2011). It is also a cofounder of VitalSmarts, an innovator in corporate training and organizational performance. VitalSmarts has consulted with more than 300 of the Fortune 500 companies and trained more than 650 000 people worldwide. www.changeanythingbook.com

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11 Incredibly simple ways to infuse your life with Bliss, happiness and joy

What do you really want from life?

I mean really, really want. If you sit down and think about why you want anything, you can almost always discover that the main reason is because you want to feel a certain way.

It could be to feel peace of mind, fulfillment, purpose, or even freedom.

You may think you want money, but what does money give you? Freedom? And what does freedom give you?

On and on it goes and if you dig deep enough, you’ll realize that all you truly want is to feel good. I’m not saying this is the case for everyone, but it is for most.

When you’ve read this article, you will have 11 concrete tips on how you can dramatically crank up the happiness level in your life.

And with that said, let’s get to the 11 simple ways to infuse your life with bliss, happiness, and joy, shall we?

1. Clarity

You easily have the potential to be happy right now. Try this: Imagine yourself in a pool trying to hold a beach ball under the water.

It’s hard, isn’t it?

As soon as you let go, it will float back up to the surface where it belongs. We as humans are much the same way, because when you remove all the negative layers you have collected since childhood, you will naturally feel happy and blissful.

However, you have to be clear about what it is you want from life. Now, obviously happiness comes from the inside, but the more you know what you want, the happier you will be.

2. Set Goals

The first step to clarity is to set specific goals.

Most people never set any goals at all, because they’ve been told not get their hopes up and not go after their dreams, because it’s easier to settle for less than to be disappointed.

Or is it?

Realize that these thoughts are not your own, because they’ve been handed down from your ancestors and parents and teachers since the beginning of time.

It’s time for a change.

3. Imagine Your Ideal Life

Once you have your goals set, visualize them and imagine living them right now.

When we’re children, we constantly daydream about things such as what you want to do when you grow up, and how much fun you will have.

If nothing else, this will make you feel much better and happier. Even so, there’s a lot of research on the power of visualization using your imagination that cannot be denied.

4. Cultivate the Positive Habit

It’s easy to think negative thoughts, but realize the way you think today is nothing but a habit.

There are people that think mostly positive thoughts and there are people that think mostly negative thoughts.

This can be changed and should be changed if you want to infuse your life with grace, joy and happiness.

As you continue reading this article, you may have noticed starting to feel better and better yourself, haven’t you?

It’s all about the words I’ve used in this article. I’ve focused mostly on the positive and on making you feel better.

5. Change Your Sources

One of the best ways to cultivate positive thinking is to change your sources.

By this I mean stop watching TV, stop hanging around negative friends, and stop reading stuff that makes you feel not totally amazing.

Start reading personal development material that motivates, inspires, and encourages you to become more.

You have the potential to become much, much more than you think. When you change the input you give your mind, you change your life.

6. Give

Another great way to infuse your life with positivity is to give people what you want to get.

Have you ever helped somebody, or given somebody something that made them so happy they thanked you profusely or even hugged you?

How good doesn’t it feel to make someone else happy? I don’t know how good it feels for you, but I know it feels amazing whenever I do something nice for someone else.

This can mean volunteering, helping children, or coaching people in something that you are very good at.

7. Embrace You

You are a unique human being.

We are bombarded with advertising and marketing messages that makes you feel less because that is what makes you want to buy, and that is what keeps companies running.

But realize that you are perfect as you are, and there’s no one like on this planet. You are here for a reason and you have a purpose to fulfill.

When you accept yourself, you immediately begin to feel better and begin to focus on the positive future ahead of you.

8. Ignore Everybody

Ignore everybody and follow your heart.

It’s very easy to get confused with all the conflicting information out there, because your heart is telling you one thing while many so called “experts” tell you to do something completely different.

I’m not telling you to not learn from people. I’m just suggesting that maybe you know more than you think you do.

9. Take Action

One of the most common characteristics of happy and successful people is that they are constantly taking action towards their goals.

Once people stop pursuing their goals, their lives don’t feel the same anymore. In fact, most people do not have any goals at all, which explains a lot of the unhappiness today.

Make sure you have goals, and make sure you’re taking action toward them even if you don’t know if you’re on the right path.

10. Embrace the Uncomfortable

To become a living example of happiness, you must love personal growth.

Almost every growth experience comes dressed up in work clothes, which is often uncomfortable. But each of these experiences is what will ultimately help you grow.

Once you realize this, you embrace uncomfortable events and experiences, because you know that they are there for a reason.

11. Find Your Passion

Finding your passion can be mysterious. However, it is usually only as hard as you make it out to be.

You see, there is no one perfect passion for most people. We all have several interests and often those interests lead us on a path instead of taking us to a destination.

It can be helpful to think of your passion as a goal to aim at but not one that you will always reach.

You can easily increase the happiness in your life if you truly want to. As you decide to do so, you will immediately feel better and new ideas will start flooding into your mind.

What I am trying to convey with this article is this: You can feel good now, if you would only make the choice.

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